There comes a time in your child’s life when you are faced with the moment you’ve been dreading anticipating preparing for: your little baby is a preteen or teenager who has outgrown that little kid room you always thought was so cute. It happens in every child’s life – they want their room to reflect them and their interests.
When our kids reached this milestone, however, we did not have a budget that allowed them to just pick out all their favorite things from a PB Teen catalog. But by using simple DIY projects, organizing, and buying some key items, we were able to upgrade them into affordable young adult rooms.
Here are 5 Tips To Transition A Kid Room To A Teen Room we learned along the way:
1. Consult with your teen…or not. Each child is different and while the room should reflect them, not all kids care about decorating.
- Our son, for example is supremely uninterested in paint and colors (he’s color-blind, too!), though I knew he’d appreciate a more “grown-up” room. I asked him a few key desires (a bigger bed was his #1 request) and then we surprised him with an “Extreme Room Makeover” when he returned from a spring break trip.
- Never in a million years would I attempt to surprise our daughter, however. She has definite opinions about everything (I hardly ever buy her clothes, even, without her input). She picked out the colors, fabric, and helped flesh out the ideas before we made over her room while she was away. She still got the fun of seeing it done like her brother, but it was exactly what she wanted, too.
2. Clean out the clutter. Stuffed animals, toys, figurines, children’s books, old clothes, things that were special years ago and aren’t anymore – these are all things that need to be dealt with.
Use the classic “three boxes” organizing technique (which I’ve expanded to four) to make this part easy:
- Box #1 is labeled “Donate” for your nearest thrift store.
- Box #2 (actually a nice plastic box with a tight-fitting lid) is labeled “____’s Memory Box” and contains any special items your child wants to keep and archive. Our kids kept things from school, special artwork (NOT all artwork from school is special, folks – let’s be realistic here), cards and such. I helped my kids with this – some things I knew would be special later that they didn’t think so and visa versa. The boxes are kept in the attic.
- Box #3 is optional for any younger family members who would benefit from hand-me-downs and toys. I have nieces and nephews that we saved some things for (especially nice picture books and clothes).
- Box #4 is the throw away box, aka, trash can. And, goodness, was there a lot of that!
3. Eliminate what isn’t working in your child’s room. You can see from the pictures above, that our son only used his desk to pile junk on. I don’t think I ever saw him sitting at that desk in the five years he had it. Oh, and the drawers? Yeah, I think he used them instead of a trash can. So…no desk and no big drawers to fill with junk.
The skirted bedside table didn’t work, either. It collected dust that was hard to clean and didn’t provide any storage for the things he did use. This table we upgraded to has worked much better:
The drawer is just big enough for little things (wallet, games, cards), but not so big that it could double for a trash can. The basket holds the books and papers that used to litter the floor.
Well, things still litter the floor every now and then- but there is a basket to throw them in now.
So ELIMINATE what doesn’t work and brainstorm what will help your child be more organized.
4. Freshen with paint. It’s a wonder, really, what a $25 can of paint can do.
Our daughter had painted the flowers on the lower section of her walls when she was about 11 years old. She liked it for awhile and then outgrew it. We took pictures of her favorite parts of the wall and then she picked out the green color to paint over it (she actually found it on the cover of a book which we took in to have color-matched).
Yes, it was bittersweet to paint over it, but you have to admit, it really does “grow up” her room. And she loved it (and still does, two years later!).
5. Provide some “grown-up” accessories. Besides adult-type bedding (no more cartoon-themed sheets *sniff*), think about nice lamps – and even a chandelier. Provide a comfy chair with a lamp for a special reading area.
And I’ve found that baskets are terrific for hiding that paper clutter that seems to over-take kid’s rooms after awhile. When the baskets get full, it’s time to go through them – much better than piles on the floor!
I also made sure that each room had a large bulletin board where the kids can hang up things important to them – without thumb tacking them all over the walls.
And of course, if their #1 wish is a bigger bed – find a way to provide it. We made a double bed for our son’s room using mostly wood from our scrap pile…and lots of wood fill and paint. I love how paint covers a multitude of imperfections!
What ways have you found to help your child’s room grow up?
Want more kid’s room inspiration? Today I’m teaming up with these talented bloggers to help you tackle your own projects, learn some new tips, organize and be inspired:
Lauren from Mama’s Laundry Talk is Getting A Handle on Children’s Laundry
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