My 2019 Goals + 2018 Recap & My Word of the Year
My 2019 goals in the areas of personal, home/financial, and business with a review of 2018’s goals and the new word of the year I’m choosing and how it will affect my goals and life.

Each year I take the time to reflect on the previous year, the goals I set and how they turned out, and craft new goals for the new year. I actually started doing this after my first year of blogging in January of 2010 (you can see all the goals I’ve shared here). I was inspired by other bloggers I read who shared their goals and what they were able to accomplish with a little planning.
**I interrupt this article to ask – did you notice the date I mentioned? I started AOC in February of 2009, so 2019 marks my 10th anniversary writing and sharing recipes and life with you all on this website!! I really can NOT believe it. Okay, back to all about goals…**
And that’s what I always hope this sharing of my goals does for you – inspires you to set one, two, or more goals you’d like to see happen in the coming year. I am convinced that setting a few focus areas is key to not just letting life happen to you – where you react to all the things that have to be done, the normal day-to-day life that takes up so much of our time vs. moving forward towards being the person you’d like to be.
If I hadn’t made it a priority to make time for my family, I wouldn’t be the best mother and wife I can be. If I don’t plan for friendships, they wither. If I don’t motivate myself to read with a goal, I spend my extra time on social media or watching forgettable television. If I don’t keep up with my health, it will definitely get worse. And business and work goals have been key in moving this website forward (it’s SO easy to just spend all my time reacting to things in the blogging world!).
Perfection is definitely NOT required – nor is meeting all the goals each year. For example, it took us more than 5 years to fully fund our emergency fund. We didn’t give up, or feel like we failed – any progress was better than none.
If you can look back and see progress, that’s a win. Sometimes it may be in an area you didn’t even foresee – that happens sometimes because, life. But moving forward and growing is the overarching goal, which is why I hope that sharing my successes and failures helps you to see that setting a few realistic goals is a good thing.
How do I Write Goals?
I aim for 3-5 goals in each of three areas: Personal, Home/Financial, and Business that come from our “big” 5-year goals. These big goals are a little more general – the things we just want to see happen more like travel, home progress, relationships, retirement planning, etc.
After reflecting, I write my goals in my Flexible Planner and then immediately use the Goal Action Steps section to list out 3-5 small steps I can take towards them for the first quarter of the year. Then I can move those to the months and then weeks, breaking the goal down as necessary.
Whatever system you use, just write them down where you can see them and review every three months or so – that’s the key to not letting the January excitement of a new year fade by month four (or two, ha!).
2019 Goals & 2018 Recap

Recap of 2018’s goals and results:
Personal:
- Keep healthy by continuing regular workouts and eating right. Specifically Iād like to add even more vegetables to lunch and dinner with 1/2 to 3/4 of meal to consist of veggies. RESULTS: I feel really good about this, especially after learning to ferment and making sure to eat some of those veggies daily. Dinner usually consisted of two vegetables and lunch was often leftovers or a salad. One thing I didn’t specify was to lose the 10 lbs. that had crept on after turning 50, but it was a major focus for me and I’m happy to report that Intermittent Fasting is what finally worked for me (listen to this podcast for more on that) – I’ll be writing more on this in the future.
- Read 50 books again this year. RESULTS: Smashed again – I read 85 (!!) books this year, so I think it’s time to shoot for a larger reading goal, don’t you?
- Join church home group in new house area. RESULTS: Mixed. There wasn’t a group in our area, so we’ve become the leaders of a new group that so far has only one other person. Hopefully in the next few months we will be meeting on a regular basis.
Home/Financial:
- First phases of remodel for new house. These will include: foundation work; siding, new front door, and master bump-out. RESULTS: Well, looking at this we actually completed or started all this in 2018 – and this is after me thinking it took so long to get started and we were so behind! The foundation is done, old siding restored & moldings back, new front door, and a lot of the framing & roof done on the master extension.
- Rent second home by end of 2018. Weāll be living in it the first half, but with a goal to rent to help fund the remodel of the farmhouse. RESULTS: Ha! No. We’re no where near to moving in and the renting of the home we’re living in so close to the farmhouse is iffy. We’re now thinking of AirBNB or something.
- Retirement planning by meeting with a financial advisor. RESULTS: Met! After two years on the list, we found and met with a planner who has really helped us even with our minuscule savings. I’d recommend meeting with a planner to anyone.
Business:
- Continue working on affiliate income and creating products. In fact, you can expect something this month that Iāve been working on for a few years! RESULTS: Met! The Flexible Planner and Vegetable Gardening the Easy Way are out in the world and I shared with you some wonderful Ultimate Bundles.
- Hire a social media specialist. RESULTS: MET! I hired a person to help with FB for awhile but then decided to focus on Pinterest with a new VA who specializes in it. This has helped my load a lot.
- Increase newsletter subscribers. RESULTS: Not met. I have a good list, but I cleaned it out to get my open rate higher, so actually lost subscribers this year, ha! I’d still like to work on this.
- Do regular FB lives and Instagram Stories (my āscaryā goalā¦) ā Iām hoping having the new property will inspire me to see this as a fun way to communicate with you. Expect lots of befores, in-progresses, and afters! RESULTS: Mixed. Well, actually not met as far as the “regular” part. I did do some Insta stories and longer videos I added to my You Tube channel. I’d like to still work on this.
- Attend 2 conferences (still āscaryā goal for me!). Both are scheduled for the first half of the year. RESULTS: MET! One wasn’t as profitable, but the other was really worthwhile (plus we got to explore Austin and Waco together).
- Join a mastermind group for biz goal accountability. This is in the works and Iām so excited! RESULTS: MET! Our group met together for the first 6 months of the year and helped keep accountable as well as sharing business insights. I’ve been meeting with a blogging friend monthly for more specific accountability, which has been so good.

2019 Goals & Word of the Year
Personal:
- Maintain weight with Intermittent Fasting (16:8 eating window) and healthy eating (I feel this just has to be a goal every year, even if I’m at a good weight).
- Move everyday. Barre at-home videos 3x/week (I’ve been consistent at this for more than 2 years now- a record for me!) adding in 4x/week walking and/or gardening/DIY. Also, add Pomodoro timer to computer and set to work in 60-90 minute blocks before getting up to move.
- Read/Listen to 80 books.
- Build relationships by connecting with friends in person 2x/month and home group 1x/week.
Home/Financial:
- Farmhouse Remodel: Finish master extension, flooring on main level, porch roof, living/dining room, kitchen, vegetable garden fenced and useable, and sunken flower garden started.
- Max out retirement funds.
- Find new CPA + better plan for taxes.
- Move by end of year? Plan for manufactured home?
Business:
- AOC Products: promo current products and introduce 1-2 more.
- Increase newsletter subscribers.
- Pinterest focus to increase traffic from that source.
- Continue SEO optimization of older recipes and articles.
- Regular videos and more social media lives.
2019 Word of the Year
Every year I think maybe I won’t have a word for the new year – and then one just comes to me, usually at the last minute (being a Christian, I like to think it’s from God). I had been casually thinking about it for the last few months and then during our church’s service on December 30th, the speaker was talking about something that just jumped out at me and I knew it would be my word:
Steadfast
I think it builds nicely off of 2017’s Hope and 2018’s Trust – I want to be steadfast in all the areas of my life: my relationship with God, with my family, and steadfast in my commitments and business. When I looked up the definition, the other words used to describe steadfast are exactly what I’d like to be known for:
Dependable, Reliable, Consistent, and especially: Unwavering & Faithful
When I think about the goals I’ve made, being unwavering will go a long way to helping make them a reality – dependably produce useful content for you, reliably meet my deadlines, consistently put my relationships before my business, etc.
I will again do a year-long Biblical word study of steadfast (doing this has made the yearly word so much more meaningful!), looking up a new verse daily/weekly and writing it in my journal.
So that’s it, friends – another year of goals and another new start to becoming people who live simple homemade lives! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for joining me on this journey – I appreciate each and every one of you!
Never hesitate to leave a comment or email me with your thoughts and suggestions – I love hearing from you (if you want the quickest access, sign up for the newsletter below – then you can just hit “reply” to my newsletters and be in my inbox whenever you think about it!).
For more inspiration, you can see all my previous goals from 2010 on here.

Hi Jamie,
I’m behind on my blog reading as well as on officially setting my goals for 2019 in writing. What perfect timing to belatedly read this post of yours today as I’m trying to get caught up after a super busy December! I really appreciate that you shared your specific goals and results, as that’s a really helpful example to me as I set about to write down my own goals. My approach to goal setting has varied from year to year as I keep trying to tweak my system into something that actually serves me rather than overwhelms me. I especially like your suggestion to break goals down into doable action steps to be revisited every few months … this might be a game changer for me!
I’ve been reading your blog for years, and I’ve used many of your recipes and tips with great success. Thanks for all the good things you share, and a blessed 2019 to you and your family!
Lauren
I’m so glad you found this helpful, Lauren! Honestly, sometimes I think “is this too much me, me, me?” š But then I know I’m motivated (and often educated) by what other’s share about goals and things their working towards and I just keep putting these out there. Well, that and because I’ve really seen a difference in my life. š
And I tweak all the time, too – it’s definitely all about finding out what works for you. Getting some way to pay attention to the goals again throughout the year really did make a difference for me – I hope it does for you, too.
Have a wonderful 2019, too!
Thanks Jamie! I appreciate learning about how you go about setting goals. I have never been very good at writing or keeping goals. I would like to hear more about your barre workout video. Thanks.
I hope my simple system may help you, Kim! As for the barre workouts, my favorite is Barre3 – they only have a couple free ones on You Tube, but I’ve made a playlist of all I could find as well as a few others of barre workouts I like. You kind of have to try them to see if you like them!
Jami,
Thank you for sharing your goals and results. Your podcast is one of my favorites and I am excited to hear and see on You Tube the progress that you are making on your new home. Best wishes for the new year.
Thank you so much, Judi – this makes me happy because I enjoy sharing life with you and hope you get something out off it, too. š Happy New Year to you and yours!
Thank you Jami! Once again you are truly inspiring to me. I started following you in 2012 and have been blessed over and over again by your recipes, gardening tips, diys, organization, etc. This year I’m going to give the Flexible Planner a try and hope I can stick with it as well as you. I think I’m also going to borrow your “word of the year”, steadfast, as it fits my goals also.
I’ve got to get busy now and get my planner printed out and get it started. I’ve been having a bit of trouble trying to figure out the best way to print it, as I want to do the smaller version. So do you glue pages together to create double sided pages or print on both sides? Also, do you cut off edges or just cut the sheet in half and punch holes?
Blessings to and your family in 2019 and I pray your goals are met above and beyond, as well as my own!
Thank you again and God bless!
Wow, thank you so much for blessing me with your words, Marci! My goal with AOC is to inspire and empower so when I hear that is happening, well, I’m just so thankful. š I’m glad to know that we will be working together being steadfast – and using our Flexible Planners!
As for printing, you do not have to go through all that! There are directions for printing the smaller version in the Fast Start Guide that came with your files – that’s how I print mine when I print at home. The key is to either cut regular paper in half before printing or to buy half-sized paper AND to be able to print 2-sided pages. If your printer doesn’t print back-to-back, I’d really suggest having it printed somewhere else. Unfortunately, I tried Office Max’s printing and they didn’t know how to use the files (??), plus it was going to be kind of expensive. There might be a local printer in your area. Otherwise, I’ve had great experience with https://www.9centcolorcopies.com/ – you simply choose “multi-page documents,” upload the small planner file, and choose the things you need (page size, number of pages, back to back, etc.). It was the same price to have it delivered to me as it was at Office Max (and they didn’t know what they were doing!). I got it in about 3 days. So that’s an option, too.
Hopefully this helps!!
Thank you again and have a blessed new year. š
Jami – Thanks for the inspirations! I stumbled across your blog looking for wheat bread about a year ago. By the way, we love it! Interestingly enough we are empty nesters, have a raised garden , and love travel and good food! Also, most important we are Christians and do so much appreciate you witnessing to that! Especially in this day and age – so refreshing to find a site like yours! Thanks again! Looking forward to sharing this year!
Sue
Thank you so much, Susan! I love hearing that we have so much in common – I knew we couldn’t be the only ones enjoying this stuff, right? š
Your words have blessed me – I hope you have a wonderful 2019!
I’ve been following your blog since last year after finding your “Chocolate and zucchini muffins” receipe. You re-inspired me to take up a word for the year. It was none other than “Steadfast”! I’ll be praying for you! It was a trying year in many more ways than I would like to share here. But, God will definitely speak into your life through this Word. May “His face shine upon you and yours in 2019 and beyond. I blog regularly at http://www.ConfessionsOfAmothersheart.com. Maybe God will use me to re-inspired you next year.
I love that we will be using steadfast together to be unwavering in our faith, relationships, and work! As we get older, it seems more and more years are trying (I look back on when the kids were little and shake my head that I thought that was hard, ha!), so I hear you. My words for the last two years were Hope and then Trust – and I needed both as I clung to God during life-altering times. Choosing a word has really helped ground and focus me in this season of life (and doing the year-long word study through the Bible) – I hope it does you, too.
Thank you for sharing your website – it looks like a great ministry! I couldn’t see any areas where you blog, though – did I miss it?
Steadfast was last year’s word, but I will have to continue with it until the end ;-). I blog at http://www.4gillgirl.wordpress.com or visit my ministry page at http://www.confessionsofamothersheart.com
Loved this post! I have followed you since early on, although I haven’t commented much. Congratulations on 10 years, and much success reaching your goals in 2019! Steadfast is a great word!
Thank you so much, Christi – I’m so glad to know you’ve been with me since the early days! Blessings, friend. š
Jami, Thanks for this truly inspiring post. Happy New Year to you and your family.
And you, too, Lisa – thanks for reading and commenting!
What wonderful inspirational Jami……..thank you for all you do, you always give us so much to think about and ponder . Happy New Year to You and your Family……… Love and Blessings…….dolores
Oh, I’m so happy to read this, Delores – thank you. You are always such an encourager to me. š
Hope you all have a Healthy, Happy 2019.
You too, Charlotte! Thank you for your faithful reading and comments – I appreciate you. š